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 Banking Tips Nasreen Sattar Senior Business Development Manager Standard Chartered Bank Q. 
          The Modern age is the period of business and technology. In the business 
          arena banking is playing a pivotal role especially in the export and 
          import business. It is to be mentioned that business is valid in Islam 
          but interest is prohibited. In our country Islami Bank is announcing 
          that it is doing interest-free banking. To what extent it is correct 
          and how can we judge the correctness?  A. 
          Dear Mr. Rahman  Q. 
          Can I encash my Shanchaya Patras (Govt. Bonds) before maturity? I need 
          the funds urgently as my daughter is getting married.  A. 
          Yes, you can encash them at any time. However, if you encash before 
          completion of one year, no interest will be paid to you. If encashed 
          any time between one year till maturity, you will be paid a discounted 
          rate (reduced rate) of interest from the initial contracted rate. In 
          such cases interest rate will also vary depending upon the time elapsed 
          from the date of issuance of the bonds. For example, if you want to 
          encash them after one and a half years you will get interest for only 
          one year.  Q. 
          How can I obtain a Standard Chartered International Credit Card and 
          what types of International Cards do you offer?  A. 
          You will be required to have a US$ account, either RFCD (Resident Foreign 
          Currency Deposit) or ERQ (Exporters Retention quota) FCY account to 
          apply for Standard Chartered International Credit Card. We are currently 
          offering Visa Classic and Visa Gold International Cards. The minimum 
          limits for these cards are US$ 500/ - and US$ 5000/. The maximum limits 
          are US$4500 and US$ 20,000/ respectively. Please note we will require 
          to keep a lien amount of 112% of the credit limit (as per the foreign 
          exchange regulation). Repayment of the card will also have to be made 
          in US$ cheque, debit instruction or standing order.  Helpline Anwara Chowdhury Guidance Counselor Q. Can you relate the importance of bereavement counseling? A. 
          Bereavement or loss by death is only one of the many experiences of 
          loss faced during the course of our lives. Bereavements can be described 
          as the loss of something that is precious. It is often used in the context 
          of losing a person, but it may include the loss of an inanimate object, 
          the ending of a relationship, a change in a particular life situation 
          or any kind of unexpected experiences in a person's life.  Loss 
          touches all of us throughout our lives, yet its existence is not always 
          recognized, except in extreme cases such as death or divorce. The process 
          of loss remains a source of stress. Unless the loss is recognized, acknowledged 
          and grieving is encouraged, it can be difficult to move on with the 
          rest of our lives. "There is no growth without pain and conflict 
          and no loss that cannot lead to gain".  Society 
          plays a major role in a person's life. The grieving process can be hindered 
          when society places behavioral barriers towards the bereavement process. 
          Sometimes the bereaved uses different types of mechanisms to avoid feeling 
          any pain from the loss. If this bereavement process is not adequately 
          completed then later in life there may be difficulties and complications. 
           During 
          the grieving period survivors are often selective in choosing with whom 
          they can share their feelings. Sometimes they pretend that everything 
          is fine and they are coping well. This delusion occurs to those who 
          cannot tolerate the thought of demise. Sometimes when they cannot cope 
          with denial they vent their anger on others because their dreams and 
          hopes were prematurely ended. Dealing with loss involves a process of 
          grief and mourning which has separate stages: shock and numbness, denial 
          and yearning, despair and disorganization, acceptance and recovery. 
          A survivor experiences these stages through the mourning period to accept 
          the reality of the loss. When survivors are assisted in going through 
          the stages, they find it easier to accept their fate without so much 
          pain and struggling. Bereavement 
          Counseling involves helping a person to go through a normal grief stage 
          to a healthy completion. The bereaved person supported by a counselor 
          goes through the different stages to accept the reality of the loss. 
          One of the aims of grief counseling is to help the bereaved person to 
          go through this difficult task so they do not have to carry the pain 
          throughout their lives. It is essential to acknowledge this and work 
          through the pain or it could result in stress and other physical symptoms. Q. I am extremely concerned about my 14 years son. Over a period of time he has become very quiet and subdued. He spends most of his time in his room. Please advice me on this issue. -Sharmin Dear 
          Sharmin, I believe this kind of situation may create a stressful environment, which is not at all helpful to you or to your child. My advice is to make time for him. Discuss with your son some of the issues I have mentioned if you feel they are relevant .Do not accuse him about his behaviour. Be sympathetic to his problems and treat him with respect. For 
          further details or advice contact Anwara Chowdhury  Parlour wise Lucy's 
          parlour, located in Baridhara is running with great success since the 
          parlour was opened as a branch two years back by the country's beauty 
          legend from Chittagong with an experience of over thirty five years. 
          The parlour is well decorated and has a classy-expensive look to cater 
          to the needs of its customers. Some of the staff have experience of 
          well over twenty years and have extensive training both at home and 
          abroad. The parlour has already made an impact despite some parlours 
          in the area, which are well established. Lucy runs the biggest parlour 
          in the country in Chittagong having well over 50 girls. Being a regular 
          customer for the first ten years with Lucy, I dare say she is the best 
          in the trade.  By Shireen Akhtar 
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