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        Beauty Talk 
                  Sadia Moyeen Beautician, La Belle 
        Hello, 
          I was told that daily use of hair gel could cause loss of hair. The 
          same was said of hairsprays and hair creams. I have in fact seen a number 
          of people who went all bare up there, while others seemed to be going 
          fine. Could you clarify why that is? Is it because of the difference 
          in brands? If so, which brand do you recommend for men? Thanks. 
           Mishta 
        Dear 
          Mishta 
          The use of hair gel, sprays, etc do not cause hair loss. Its important 
          though to wash off or remove it at the end of the day and re-apply the 
          next day. Repeated application without washing will lead to a dry, itchy 
          scalp or even dandruff sometimes and might make the hair fall. 
          If you are not too keen to shampoo everyday, at least wash it off with 
          just water before going to bed. 
        Hi, 
           
          I would like to take your tips for my mane. It used to be straight and 
          silky, but well, now it isn't like before...alas...I've been keeping 
          either a step or a layer cut consequently for about 1-2 years and it 
          has become kind of wavy: as though its got crease (not exactly wavy). 
          The shine and softness seems to be gone within the recent few months 
          of increased sun exposure, and I guess it's not curing inspite of a 
          weekly basis of oiling and conditioning after shampooing. My hair has 
          thinned too. Please give me a permanent suggestion to get back the lustre, 
          smoothness and straightness. Thank you! 
        Trim your hair regularly. 
          After shampoo and conditioning, apply a repairing treatment balm, leave 
          for 2-3 minutes and rinse off.  
          You can also make a pack at home and apply twice a week before a shampoo. 
          Keep on for ½ an hour. For the pack you will need 1 mashed banana, 
          ½ an egg, 2 tbs conditioner, 1 tbs vinegar (white), 1 tbs, almond 
          oil.  
        Dear 
          Sadia,  
          I am a 16 year old girl. My problems are: 
          1) Hair loss: my hair is really thick, but now it is falling. It's still 
          thick enough, but I don't want to be bald by the time I am 40.  
          2) Complexion: my skin tone is pretty fair, but lately it's darkening 
          because of pimples and sun burning. I don't want to apply sun block. 
          Can you suggest any paste that I can make at home and apply to my whole 
          body, which will help prevent suntan and pimples.  
          3) I want to cream rebound my hair; is it harmful? If it does not work 
          for the first time, will I be charged again if I have to redo it?  
          4) I wax most of the time. Suggest a good hair remover. Does using cream 
          leave rash marks or make it spiky after hair starts growing again?  
          Dan 
        Dear 
          Dan 
          Here are your answers: 
          1. Don't worry, women don't really go bald; it is the one problem we 
          have left the man to deal with. If your hair is falling, there may be 
          several reasons for it: 
          dandruff (b) stress (c) natural shedding, wither way. 
          Use the following pack twice a week for 20 mins to ½ an hour: 
          1 egg (beaten), 1 tbs yoghurt, 1 tbs onion juice, ½ tsp methi 
          paste, 1 tbs oil (coconut/amla) 1 tbs lemon juice. 
          (2) Make a pack with 1/2 cups of uptan, lemon juice, yoghurt, 2-3 neem 
          leaf paste. Massage on face and body. Please remember that sun-block 
          is a girl's best friend. 
          (3) No, if done properly, rebounding is not harmful. Irresponsible use 
          of chemicals can harm your hair. If it does not work, yes, at La Belle, 
          we will repeat it for you and I'm sure so will other responsible outlets. 
          (4) 'Veet' and 'Nair' are two easily available brands in Dhaka. Before 
          using, always test any new chemicals for any allergies or sensitivity. 
          Re-growth is the same as it would be after waxing. 
         
        Style 
          Files 
         
          Maheen Khan Fashion designer, Mayasir  
        I 
          like to wear simple styles in solid colours. My suits are almost always 
          in kurta cuts or a-line paired with wide trousers. They sometimes can 
          look a little monotonous, so in order to break the monotony I like to 
          wear interesting accessories. I would appreciate if you could please 
          suggest a few new ideas. 
        There are many who 
          are like you, like simple yet strong lines. Your styles looks great 
          with fun scarves which are either printed or woven in interesting patterns, 
          this can come in varying lengths of course and can be worn as you please. 
          Large beads on your neck in wood, stone, or shell looks quite striking. 
          I would suggest you also try large pendants in silver which are strung 
          by smaller beads or roped in cotton yarn. The other option would be 
          to wear large dangling earrings like a chandelier. It is also fashionable 
          to wear hoop earrings in large sizes, or rings in one or two layers. 
          These large scale pieces add character to your overall look. The trendiest 
          accessory that you should try to carry this summer probably would be 
          bangles. These are generally hip in wide oversized sizes. Cuffs are 
          fitted and the bangles sit loosely on your wrist. Wooden, leather, mother 
          of pearl, or in metal are all boho chic. Use them in excess. 
        I 
          am a college student in Dhaka. I am short and on the heavier side, and 
          although I like to look trendy with the new short styles, I feel uncomfortable. 
          could you suggest some new styles? 
           
        It 
          can sometimes be distressing when you are short and heavy. But don't 
          worry; there are solutions for all body types. I think you will not 
          look right in short tops or very long ones. You need to wear something 
          which is just over your knees. Wear v-neck, with three quarter or long 
          sleeves, but the cuffs should be narrow to provide a slimming effect. 
          Stripes will make you look slimmer; these can be in solids, geometric, 
          or in floral. Try on pants that are narrow legged but not too narrow 
          as you wouldn't look okay with tight thighs. Wear cuts that are form 
          fitted but not too right. The style mantra this season suggests one 
          two or more layers. Slip on triangular or square ponchos for great coverage 
          and style. 
        I 
          am required to travel at least once a month for my official work. I 
          would like you to tell me what I should be packing. I would like to 
          travel light but at the same time look presentable and smart during 
          my work or leisure activities. Please help. 
        I 
          think when you are traveling on work, you need to travel with a sensible 
          wardrobe. Carry blouses or shirts in neutral colours in three different 
          styles. One sleeveless with mandarin collar, one polo neck knit t-shirt, 
          one button down ruched in short sleeve. You can always layer it under 
          a soft jacket in the summer. Use charcoal, navy or khaki pants take 
          any one since you are making a short trip. But make sure it is the wrinkle 
          free lycra mix kind if you intend to get mileage out of it. Take a shalwar 
          kameez suit or a formal sari for an evening out. Keep your jewellery 
          to the minimum. Don't forget to take your swimming suit or your gym 
          gears, and always make time for your work out.  
         
        By 
        The Way Did 
          you know… 
        that 
          when you sneeze, all your bodily functions stop, even the heart? And 
          when you sneeze, air rushes out your nose at a rate of 100 miles per 
          hour! Did you ever wonder why pepper makes you sneeze? Pepper, be it 
          white, black, or green, contains an alkaloid of pyridine called piperine. 
          Piperine acts as an irritant if it gets into the nose. It stimulates 
          (or irritates) the nerve endings inside the mucous membrane. This stimulation 
          will cause you to sneeze. Actually, the nose wants to kick out this 
          irritant and the only way it knows how to do this is by sneezing.  | 
      
            
          UNDER 
                  A DIFFERENT SKY  
          By 
            Iffat Nawaz 
          Left-over 
             
          I had 
            a few left-over feelings of yours. I didn't realise they belonged 
            to you, so I had taken it with me, in a little brown doggy bag, stored 
            it to be explored later, and it rotted in the back of mind, until 
            today, when it's strong odour and infectious roots touched a few of 
            my other nerves.  
          So I 
            opened the old brown bag, only to find feelings that never belonged 
            to me, and were just left-overs of your mind. The concept of left 
            over was new to me before. No, not the before when you and me were 
            you and me, but the before when I was fresher, still unaccustomed 
            to cold milk and cold sandwiches. Milk to me was still meant to be 
            warm, boiled in high temperature, the white bottles full of whiter 
            milk in the grocery aisles never made any sense to me. And neither 
            did the cold cuts, or the bland turkey sandwiches…how could they, 
            I would think, how could they eat and drink such things.  
          So it 
            was those days, those "before" days are what I am talking 
            about. In those days, I use to think left-overs were destined to be 
            thrown away, fed to the cat or the dog in the absence of a homeless 
            person or a beggar. But in America you don't feed table-food to cats 
            or dogs, it ruins their system and makes them into lesser beings…so 
            the other option was that I could feed it to the birds, and I soon 
            found they were way too picky about their carbohydrates. But still, 
            I would think, "no way, never should one refrigerate left-overs 
            for a few days at a time; who does that?"  
          Well, 
            soon I learnt that I do that, and I do it with pleasure, microwaving 
            left-over meat and lentils and trying to search for old flavours in 
            the recently warmed carefully frozen home cooked food. I had made 
            it into a habit along with others around me who also accepted the 
            coldness of American refrigerators, a magic box of freedom offering 
            choices in frozen blocks.  
          "Tora 
            je ki kore bashi khabar khash" my grandmother would say 
            during her visits to the USA, barely touching any of the left-overs 
            warmed and served in microwavable platters. She would eat with sheer 
            disgust and try to make a few dishes every day herself so she doesn't 
            have to be tortured yet another time at the dinner table with food 
            that was one or two days old. I didn't mind. Fresh food always makes 
            me happy, like the way folded laundry or fabric softeners do.  
          So that's 
            how I got used to left-overs, and soon I started to look for them 
            everywhere, in all parts of my life, like they all do…or we all do. 
            The left-over quarters, dollars, saving from left-over pay checks, 
            left-over seamless conversations flowing onto the next, left-overs 
            that needed to be packaged, in my mind or in my freezer, frozen, kept, 
            intact, until it destroyed itself without my help. I knew the drill… 
          I now 
            knew about left overs. And between those days, we started sharing 
            our freezers, our minds and your left-overs stored in mine and mine 
            stored in yours. Your unfinished dreams out of place in my mind locked 
            up in zip-locks, and mine lost forever in your closed cold darkness. 
            So now, as I stand here, your left-over feelings are playing in my 
            palm, your little Bangladesh and your unfinished USA all jumbled up 
            with your desperate attempts to be someone different. They have rotted 
            and transformed into different colours and shapes, but I still cant 
            throw them away. The left-overs still rule my life and yours. The 
            past, which can't be thrown away, infects the present…and I can't 
            let go of my left-overs.  
           
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