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A
SPRIG OF JASMINE
Neeman
A. Sobhan
The
jasmine season is almost over in Rome, and the hedges that
swarmed with the buzz of the tiny scented buds, no longer
make the suburban neighbourhoods hum with their dizzy fragrance.
A stale, residual smell, the after thought of scent, lingers
forlornly on the covered terrace where I sit writing at
my laptop near a half withered jasmine vine. Its hesitant
perfume reminds me of its Bengali relative, the double-petal
beli, and myself as a girl making garlands for a young aunt's
wedding, listening to love songs and eavesdropping on love
stories.
Indeed
the whole secret and undiscovered world of love and romance
and marriage, especially of the much whispered and intriguing
'wedding night' (or the entire 'man-woman thing' as I called
this extension of my youthful ignorance-innocence, reinforced
by the gossipy tales we swallowed in great gulps from friends
who had the distinction of knowing romantically involved
or newly married women), all seemed strung with this pure
yet thrillingly charged flower.
Those
were pre-teen years when my friends and I had said goodbye
to skirts and discovered femininity. We hung around beautiful
older women, and in fact, all around me I only saw beautiful
women; plain women just didn't register. Even men, I thought,
were created as the necessary thread to string her blossoming.
Beauty
was the lode star of love, and love, that great corollary
to beauty, that mixture of palpitating looks we saw exchanged
by movie stars or between older cousins when they spoke
of their crushes, was surely the essence of life, the very
extract of jasmine! I couldn't wait to grow up and wear
the jasmine of love and beauty in my hair, which I started
to grow to fairytale lengths!
My
hair is much shorter now, and my olfactory memory of youth's
jasmine is slightly faded and altered; however, a particular
memory reminds me of the association of jasmine with beauty
and love, or rather with the beauty of love. Of course,
the association is made now, for the incident when it occurred
only baffled me as a girl.
The
Dhaka Cantonment Modern School no longer exists, at least
by that name. I spent three years there, and in spite of
being the studious 'first girl' of my class, I spent less
time with books than in studying the bigger girls whom I
admired for making even the dull school uniform look exciting,
and the beautiful women teachers whom I imitated at home
wearing my mother's high heels and saris and modulating
my voice to: 'Girls, turn to page 25 of your Brighter Grammar...'
My
friends and I also spent an inordinate amount of time speculating
whether the only male teacher, the rather hen-pecked, but
passably good-looking 'Math-sir' had something going with
Teacher Rubina, the youngest and loveliest of the female
staff. We spent so much time deciphering the looks and words
exchanged between them and so certain were we about a flourishing
romance here, entirely on the basis of the pinkness of Miss
Rubina's cheeks every time Math-sir came into her English
class to borrow the blackboard duster or asked her something,
that when she glowingly handed us her wedding card announcing
her nuptials with a cousin living in Canada, to whom she
had been engaged for years, we were stunned at the failure
of our miscalculated 'romance'. We felt betrayed by both
and I decided that this 'man-woman thing' was a subject
to be avoided as much as was Math, that cold, calculating,
unrewarding mystery not unlike its unfathomable male teacher.
And any recondite crush we may have harboured for him, now
vaporized with our vicarious representative in this collective
romance, Miss Rubina, so heartlessly crushing our expectations
of fantasy with her surprise fiancée.
We
were broken hearted for days, though this did not stop us
from gushing over the groom at the wedding. 'Oh! He is so
handsome!' Math-sir was demoted to history by now. And all
our senses were concentrated on the bride, decked in jasmine
and jewellery, half fainting in the heat; and when the gallant
groom put his steadying arm around his swooning bride, we,
too, swooned at this exquisite marriage of love and beauty,
our hearts jointly thudding like a giant tabla.
After
Miss Rubina's departure for Canada from where she sent us
pictures of her marital bliss, and after Math-sir distributed
sweets on the occasion of the birth of his much awaited
son ('Imagine! Sir was married all these years...Chee!),
my friends and I cringed for a while, and then went back
to the comforting boredom of school.
The
monotony of assembly, the loitering arm-in-arm on the grounds
at Tiffin-period, the chatting and singing during the last
free period and the rushing to get into the bus at final
bell had a rhythm that sustained us. The bell was sounded
by the peon, the scowling Siraj. Had we been called upon
then to describe him we couldn't have done so, but in retrospect
I see him as a dark, middle-aged man with a well-built body.
At the time we only noticed his reassuring presence in the
school, sitting on a stool near the headmistress's door
or going around the grounds and scolding us when necessary,
especially the non-Bangla speaking girls: 'Kya karta?
What doing? How many-many times telling, this wall kuccha,
fall down, tengri toot jayenga, break legging.'
Or 'Baby! Again picking green amrood, destroying
school property!' On rare occasions when boys from Adamjee
School and the Modern girls got to meet, he was our watchdog
to keep the chokra logh away from the baby log.
Siraj
was married to the flamboyant, loud-mouthed sweeper woman,
popularly known as paagli, the madcap. Even Siraj
called her that. At the end of the day, after Siraj sounded
the gong, Paagli would go around beating on the
bus doors announcing 'city bus!' or 'cantonment bus!' while
spitting out a stream of red betel juice, laughing and joking
with the bus drivers and singing snatches of songs in her
brash voice. Siraj was too dignified to openly disapprove
of her behaviour, but every now and then he shouted from
the veranda: 'Oyee, paagli! Ekhaney aaye!' And
when she came over he would take her by the hair and shake
her: 'Thappor diya daat phelaye dimoo (I'll knock
off your teeth with a slap)'. When we looked at them from
the corner of our eyes as we sat at the bus window we would
hear her laugh out loud.
The
next day, we would forget her until one of us had to visit
the toilet with its phenyl smell, and there she would be,
in another raucously patterned sari with a broom at her
feet, untying a pouch of tobacco-filled betel leaf from
her shapely waist jingling with silver belts and ornaments.
She had a dark, pockmarked face, and the public opinion
was that she was ugly as a witch, but whenever she cocked
us an arched glance from her kohl-ed eyes or gave us a betel-stained
smile that flashed brighter than the silver nose ring, we
felt a curious fascination. We watched her swaying as she
swept the front yard before the P.T class came out. Miss
Naheed had a supple figure too, but paagli had
something, which we later learnt was called grace.
And
her laughter rang out all day, all over the school. Some
days, the headmistress had to send the head girl, the lovely
Ruhi to shut her up. Once, Ruhi had to go for a different
reason. I remember it was during the mid-term exam. I was
deep in my geography test when the crystal silence of the
classroom clouded with unclear sounds. They slowly resolved
into someone crying in the distance from the building housing
the 'baby class' and nursery school. We saw the headmistress
walk past our class, with Siraj following. For a while,
the jagged sounds of Paagli's hysteria and Siraj
shouting and beating her, rose and fell then died down into
the silence of our uneven breathing and the scratching of
our pens. After we finished our paper and came out, no one
wanted to talk about the Paagli affair; it was
out of our depths. I stayed back with some of my friends,
one of whom was going to be picked up by her brother, rumoured
to have a marked resemblance to Cliff Richard, our heartthrob
of the moment. So we stayed on to verify that and be dropped
by her.
The
school buses had left, the school building was almost empty,
except for a few staff who were army officer's wives and
waiting for their husbands. At one point, I left my friends
to go to the toilet. Before I reached it, I heard murmuring
and sniffling. I peeked into the room outside the toilet
and saw Siraj sitting on a stool with Paagli sitting weeping
at his feet, her face against his leg. Siraj was stroking
her head and saying over and over 'Amar paagli rey...torey
niya ki kori (My madcap, what to do with you?) ' Paagli
lifted her teary face and blowing her nose loudly into her
sari said thickly: 'I want my baby boy back. Give me back
my khoka….' Her voice was spent and she was whimpering.
Siraj cupped her face in his hands and said, 'You know very
well, what dies never comes back, paagli. One day we will
have another. You will see.' She shook her head, whispering
distantly: 'That new child, the new baba in nursery looked
exactly like my khoka...' 'I know, I know...' Siraj's voice
was soothing as he wiped her eyes and then from his pocket
he took out a less than fresh sprig of jasmine and tucked
it into her oily hair.
The
schoolgirl that watched the scene thought, 'Aha! Siraj you
hypocrite, caught you! Plucking flowers from the school
garden, destroying school property!' But somewhere in her
uncomprehendingly thudding heart, the unique unexamined
moment lodged itself in a new configuration of a familiar
scent, whose shape across the years comes to me in the dark
fragrance of phenyl and hair-oil and sweat and the unmistakable
fragrance of the flower that can only be jasmine to those
who believe in the beauty of love.
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