"I'm
bored, are we there yet?"
Nadia
Kabir Barb
When
you have children, travelling never consists ofimpulsive
"let's pack our bags and go wherever our fancy takes
us". It is more like -- book somewhere months in
advance and make sure it is child-friendly i.e. when your
children are walking around the restaurants, people look
indulgently at them as opposed to throwing the parents
filthy looks implying that they have obviously failed
to instil good manners into their offspring!
All
aspects of the holiday have to be planned with military
precision. I have developed a mental checklist (put it
on paper and I am guaranteed to lose it within minutes)
where I go through every item I need to pack. This may
include items such as books to read, colouring pencils
and paper to ward off cries of "I'm bored, are we
there yet?" Pinky Bear has to go in the hand luggage
(my youngest daughter's favourite teddy bear--God forbid
if we should leave without it. When we went to Bangladesh
in the summer we spent ages being dragged around Westecs
and Aarong looking for clothes for Pinky Bear!). One must
always carry enough food to feed an army or so my husband
accuses me of. But from my experience, the minute we start
on our journey the children are absolutely starving (despite
just having had lunch or some substantial meal) or dying
of thirst within the first half an hour of commencing
our journey and manage to develop an appetite of the likes
never seen at the dining table at home.
This
Christmas we decided to go to Belgium to visit my brother
and his family. It was definitely child-friendly as he
has three children of his own! It was decided that we
would not fly or take the train but go in the car and
go via the Channel Tunnel. This in a way makes life easier
as you can put everything in the boot of the car and just
drive. There is no hassle of having excess baggage or
missing your flight --if you get there late you just take
the next available shuttle or if you happen to be early
you have the option of taking an earlier train. The only
drawback (for me) is that you do have to travel under
the English Channel. I had always refused point blank
to travel on the Euro Star (a high speed passenger service
train) or the Euro Shuttle (which carries vehicles). The
crossing is 50 km long, out of which 39 km are undersea.
The average depth is 40 m underneath the seabed. The thought
of travelling under the sea was terrifying to say the
least. Having watched too many disaster movies, my imagination
ran riot envisaging leaks in the tunnel to the tunnel
collapsing on our head. However, after my brother moved
to Belgium, I relented as it made life much easier than
flying with three children and now I can just about relax
for the 35 minute crossing.
The
journey this time round was exceptionally smooth (last
time they cancelled the train due to an Anthrax scare,
got stuck in traffic and my daughter was sick!) we did
not encounter any traffic jams, there were no major mishaps
and we did not get lost. I mention this because we have
a policy of distribution of labour--my husband drives
and I read the map. However when one is bereft of any
sense of direction, it can make map reading quite a challenge.
When questions such as "is it this exit?" are
suddenly thrust upon me with the exit about to whiz past
us it can be a little disconcerting. But despite the,
"yes, this turning, no not this one, aaah I don't
know" we arrived at our final destination more than
a bit dishevelled but in relatively good spirits. The
children disappeared within minutes with their cousins
and the adults were left to catch up on the latest in
each other’s lives.
On
our second day there, my husband and I decided to take
the children into Brussels as my brother had a meeting
and my sister-in-law had to take the children to the dentist.
As soon as we got to the city centre, the children of
course were starving so we went into the nearest restaurant
we could see. As it was snowing outside they did not have
to put up much of a case for having an early lunch as
we were frozen to the bone and more than happy to take
them into the rather warm and inviting restaurant. Having
decided what our order was we called the waiter. One Salad
Nicoise, two steaks--well done--and two Crab Sandwiches.
Soon the waiter appeared with two sandwiches that looked
suspiciously like ham sandwiches! We politely told him
that we had asked for "crab" sandwiches to which
he looked surprised and said he thought we had said "club"
sandwiches! The mix up having been dealt with, we waited
for the rest of the food. The steak soon arrived and to
my daughter’s chagrin, not only was it unappetising to
look at, it was also pink through and through. So for
the second time we had to call the waiter over and ask
him "if he could please get the meat cooked!"
Then they forgot to give the sauce that was to accompany
the steak. By this stage I felt like I was in the comedy
"Fawlty Towers" and couldn't wait to get back
into the freezing snow outside. The rest of the day was
spent wandering around absorbing the Christmas lights
and atmosphere and finally heading back to my brother's
house.
The
rest of our stay was relaxing and mellow with much time
spent chatting into the small hours of the morning and
eating more than is recommended for any human being. Once
our goodbyes were made and hugs and kisses exchanged,
it was time to head home. Travelling home to London took
us even less time then our journey to Belgium and the
passengers on the way back were a little more subdued,
exhausted by the enjoyment of the past few days and asleep
for most of the journey. Mental check lists were forgotten
and even the English Channel could not dispel my feeling
of general wellbeing.