Chintito
The many
shades of
Bangalee
Chintito
There
have been several articles where the authors have expressed
painfully their confusion whether they are Bangalee or Bangladeshi.
Some have been pulling their hair over the issue for the past
several years. Well, if you pull them for too long you will
neither be a Bangalee nor a Bangladeshi; you are more likely
to emerge a baldy, so slow down, eh!
Seeing
all this puzzlement, psychologists have explained that those
who believe in the War of Liberation 1971 have lesser chance
of being confused.
The most
apt explanation is that one is a Bangalee as a product of
one's society and culture, and a Bangladeshi as a political
entity of an independent country. To distinguish yourself
from those in India's West Bengal, you may even tag yourself
as a Bangladeshi Bangalee.
The phenomenon
is nothing new; in fact, it is rather common worldwide.
A UK citizen
could be English, Welsh, Scottish, and even Bangalee. An Indian
could be Gujrati, Marathi, Tamil and even Bangalee. A Pakistani
could be Sindhi, Punjabi, Pathan and even a Bangalee. Oh!
See the smiles light up on the faces of the razakars.
Whether
you are British, Indian, Pakistani or Bangladeshi, or whatever,
you know you are a Bangalee when you
- consider spitting on the road preceded by a loud waarghh
a constitutional right
- (as a male) stare at a non-Bangalee for half-an-hour before
realising you do not know her, nor does she know you
- love to talk to a non-Bangalee you meet in Dhaka in what
you think is Urdu
- carry the flag of a foreign country to a cricket or football
match being held in your country and in which your team is
also participating, or you paint the flag on your face
- prepare a banner hailing (or criticising) the national budget
even before the finance minister makes his announcement in
parliament
- splash rainwater on pedestrians while driving a car
- (as a female) look at a man for the fifth time in twenty
seconds and then yell why the hell was he staring at you
- insist that your sister must get married to an engineer
or a doctor when you yourself never went beyond HSC
- refuse to fulfil the dowry demands of your sister's family
while pressing your wife to fulfil yours
- arrive late at a meeting simply because you are the chief
guest or the boss
- arrive late at a meeting because of one hundred reasons
- pack a small wedding gift in a large box
- smoke in the toilet of a no-smoking flight
- have a wardrobe with clothes that you have not touched in
the last four years
- tell everyone a secret by telling each one of them, 'don't
tell anyone else'
- have a grandfather (paternal or maternal) who was the jamindar
of some place
- salivate your index finger while leafing through a restaurant
menu or several haat-ruti kept on a plate
- introduce an acquaintance of two days as a bosom friend
- hide your cigarette from your elders even when you are past
sixty
- introduce your girl (or boy) friend as your cousin
- say you care a hoot for positions after you have been selected
president of a committee or samity
- lose three years the day you fill up your SSC form
- see the person you love being hooked to someone else only
because you hesitated for two years and six months to make
a positive move
- ask for and simultaneously pull out the inside page of a
newspaper a bus/train co-passenger just bought from a vendor
whom you did not entertain
- gargle at the dining table
- pick your nose in public in such ecstasy as if no one can
see you
- dip your biscuit in your tea
- take out putty from furniture with your nail
- curse in English
- know the names of at least ten Bollywood stars
- litter the street when there is no penalty
It is
not expected of any Bangalee to match each and every case
above, but any Bangalee will fit into at least one of the
situations. Only goes to show that Bangalee comes in many
shades.
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