Slice
of Life
Some
of you may resent seeing this column getting too minikid-centric
of late. If it helps, let me assure you that it is just a
matter of days. Moreover, it's an opportune moment to sympathise
with The Hubby who has to suffer this day in and day out…
Ungainly
Facts
Creating
a new life is not easy. Look at these facts below:
Richa
Jha
*You
can't lie down in bed on your back. You can't lie down on
your sides. Since you can't do either, usually you go without
sleep for months.
*So, what do you do in bed? You spend some five minutes turning
from one side to the other. And then, another five minutes
doing the reverse within minutes of the previous turn. Five
minutes is a conservative estimate because each move involves
a complex set of manoeuvrings of first leg, torso, second
leg, pillows and more pillows. The process starts with sending
SOS signals to the brains that take ages to be read and acted
upon (your senses become dull too, but we'll come to that
later), so you are in that suspended sense of inertness for
a while where you want your body to start turning around,
but it can't budge. When it does, you wish you had a crane
at hand to help you lift that several pounds of bulk around
your abdomen and deposit it on the other side.
*The only other thing you do in bed is planning to climb out
every twenty minutes to visit the toilet, which has been your
second home for a while. Remember, your bladder gets really
small, squashed, assaulted from all sides at all times. I
need not explain the process of getting up, because the effort
is more or less similar to the one mentioned above. Only,
it takes longer.
*Earlier, you were breathless only when you spotted this most
dashing hunk at the fast food joint, which in itself is a
rarer occurrence than spotting Hailey's Comet. Now you are
breathless all the time, but for reasons slightly more physically
distressing than that. You are so full of the baby that this
growing being puts pressure on your diaphragm, and prevents
you breathing freely. You partially experience what a person
dying of asphyxiation may be going through. If this person
survives, exchanging notes may be such a bad idea. A couple
of years later, that same baby will make you breathless running
around the house after him with his food.
*The only other thing you are too full of, besides the baby,
is gas. And that's embarrassing. You may be going through
the most feminine process of your life, but it isn't all that
ladylike. You are so full of it, that if it wasn't for the
weight of the baby pulling you down, you would be up there
like a hot air balloon (and delivering a baby in stratosphere
sounds like a terribly lonely thing to do).
*Next,
your hormones. Of course. The lesser said, the better. There
are times, and it may happen pretty often, when you want to
dig out your glands that produce these substances which control
your happiness, and to replace them with some pre-conditioned
robotic chip of permanent bliss. What happens instead, is
that your partner and every one around you thinks you are
afflicted with a temporary bug of extreme form of lachrymosity.
You yourself didn't know you could cry so much. No, no, this
is a worse frame of mind than even when that first boy friend
of yours ran away with your best friend…
*Feeling graceful and dextrous isn't a part of the pregnancy
package. What is, instead, in generous measures, is clumsiness.
Just remember that you are not in top form when it comes to
muscle control and co-ordination. Which basically translates
into being prone to dropping your precious vase over the carpet
(double trouble!), bumping into tables and chairs, door edges,
and maybe, just maybe, stumbling down the stairs. In any case,
you have a truncated view of the world from up there: you
forget what the lower half of your body looks like. I have
stepped out wearing different pairs of sandals in each foot,
not once but twice.
*Find yourself forgetting your anniversary (and this is different
from your husband forgetting it, mind you), or where you kept
your car keys? Rest assured, it's not you. Absentmindedness
is one of the many hallmarks of pregnancy, but it stops being
funny when you forget where you kept the car keys just when
you have to rush out for that meeting…
*I have decided to skip mentioning the most common complaints
in late pregnancy like stretch marks, varicose veins, muscle
cramps, elephant-like feet and ankles, the whole host of digestive
problems, and so on.
*And, in case you were wondering why the most commonly-heard
morning sickness and cravings don't feature here, it is because
I haven't been talking about the first and second trimesters
at all! And don't you get me started on those…
I
repeat, creating a new life is not easy; taking it, is far
simpler. Every woman who has delivered a child knows it. Which
is why, most women around the world know how precious each
life is.
Which
is also why we hear of such few women murderers. Elementary,
don't you see…
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